What Stops You From Becoming Better?

From my personal experience, I have tried to change myself from being so negative about people and situations to produce a better me that brings about great results. I started from negativity to being and thinking positive. This was a struggle because change was a new thing to me. The first time is always the hardest. After that it became easier and easier as change became my best friend.

I then worked on becoming happier. To do this I had to find the right place to find happiness and work on control issues. Was I going to continue letting others control me with their words and actions or was I going to take responsibility for my life now. If you get affected by others words and actions then you are controlled by them. I also had to learn that I was not responsible for the happiness of other people, that was their own responsibility and choice to make daily. Forgiveness might be one of these control issues that need to be resolved. Are you giving control to the other person when you forgive them or are you taking control when you are not affected by them?

Now that I am working on becoming more loving and successful there are other things to find solutions to. In order to manifest the bigger things I had to work on my self-worth and self-confidence issues. Love and success start from inside of you so work on these two issues now. They both affect your whole being especially your feelings so take care of these for when you feel good and see yourself as successful then it all comes to you. As a parent, I teach these all lessons to my child so that she starts her life out well. It is slowly working and she has many friends, does well in school, and can do many sports and activities well. We learn and grow together.

The self-worth and self-confidence issues come out slowly. These are things from the past that were not handled when it did happen. The past is dead and yet many are still affected by what happened then. The solution is to learn to let it go for your life in the present is more important and is something that you can control now. Look for ways to see it as a learning experience that makes you a better person.

Analyze what you did wrong and change it so that your life becomes different and you do not get that again. It is easier to change yourself than to change others so do that to change the way they act towards you. It might take a while for the others to realize that they can not do anything about how you want to act and change the way they deal with you but it will eventually happen.

A lot of people are afraid of change that is why they will take a while to accept the changes you make in yourself. They have a picture of you in their head that no longer fits what you have become and they are struggling with the change that they have to make for they do not know how to love and accept you just the way you are. Stop worrying about them and focus on being happy, loving and successful.

The interesting thing is that the more I become happy, loving and successful the more money there is in my life. The coaches and self-help books always say that the money will follow and it is happening to me. Start working on it now. You can do it!